DEAR ABBY: Woman wants to spend time with married gal pals

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Dear Abby: When I was approaching my 30s, many friends were paired and married. How do I manage a close friendship with a friend but don’t like spending time with their new spouse? Although they are not openly offensive, dating with them is not fun.

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Should I slowly get out of the relationship within a few years or face the problem that my friends don’t want to spend time with the rest of theirs? It seems grinded: “I don’t like hanging out with your husband.” Any advice on how to deal with this sticky situation would be greatly appreciated. – Know when they

Dear, know them: Women drive these sticky situations by getting together for “girl lunch”, spa days (if on budget) and exercise. I don’t recommend telling your newlywed husband that you are dating with isn’t fun because not only does it not receive good reviews, it can certainly make you suffer from their guest list.

Dear Abby: My husband will be publishing his first book soon. We both waited for a long time and were excited that he finally achieved this.

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While I never had any real expectations for possible dedication, I think I might get a brief mention. Instead, dedication is attributed to people he doesn’t know, and I am completely excluded. His co-author took this opportunity to acknowledge their spouse, and I regret that he did not acknowledge my support, among others.

I’m not sure if I should say anything to him. If I did this and he changed his dedication, it wouldn’t really come from him. If I wait, I will continue to feel faint. He is a dedicated husband who supports me in everything I do, so it’s just because I think so? what to do? – Not recognized in the East

Dear unrecognized: I’m sure your husband has his reason to devote himself to the book in his way. Because this is important to you, point out the impact of omissions on you. Communication is important in a healthy marriage and if you fill it up, it will continue to deteriorate.

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Dear Abby: Two months ago, I started meeting a boyfriend. He interacted with my close friend, but she treated him like trash. I witnessed it with my own eyes. I don’t regret dating him. She deserves someone. They have no children. I’m not trying to be stupid about this situation. Do you think I’m a terrible person? – it’s complicated

Dear Complex: No, but the news is delivered to her once the news is. And if you think she treats her guy like trash, figure out the hatch – because its load is coming.

– Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Please contact Dear Abby at Dearabby.com or CA 90069 Po Box 69440 in Los Angeles.

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