DEAR ABBY: Grown godchildren no longer communicate as often

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Dear Abby: My children and I have always been Very close. They think I Literally they The second mother. So far, we’re lucky Good communication. The oldest always gives me a warm Mother’s Day greeting and often calls me.

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About a year ago, she began to ignore all my proposals. Her sister, too grow up Commented with the kids how weird it is, but now she is Do the same. She said she thought it was bad, but now she stopped calling. Sometimes, she would send a loving text, but she said she was busy.

The closest I am to me does not have such a problem. When I asked him if he thought my girl had a problem or how they felt about me, he said they were Maybe very busy. When I ask young people if there is any problem, she always says, “No, I love you, mom! It’s very busy.” But she no longer Start touch. Now, the big girl completely ignored me. I No Know what to do. My adult teaching child is like my own. Please help. – The Sorrow Godmother of Florida

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Dear Godmother: You see silence as a rejection, which is a mistake. Your teaching child is no longer a child. They are adults with adult responsibilities, including children, spouses and occupations that fill time. Your sect and young goddess tell you why them Not as frequent contact as before. It is It’s time to back down. Fill in your time with other pursuits, such as activities you like, time with contemporary people, and volunteer spare time to make you feel valuable.

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Dear Abby: My mother-in-law lives with us, she and my husband very good Friends. They have many similarities. them Extrovert and them Huggers, they talk a lot. I feel like the third round most of the time, but I take it go through Read or go out in another part of the house.

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everything It seems to be It went well, except before bedtime, they hugged and gave each other a quick kiss. I find this disgusting. I’ve told my husband how I feel about it, and he said, “This is my mom.” I told him, “I never even hugged my dad, let alone kiss his lips.” I think I am Tired of her living with us. Do you want to? It is They’re normal kiss? – Postponed in Oregon

Dear postponed: regardless I think yes Suitable It doesn’t matter if your husband’s mother kisses him in her mouth. I think this is something she has done since she was a kid, so it’s normal for them. Your relationship with your father has nothing to do with it. If you feel like the third round most of the time, what’s the problem. it no Healthy, it will last until you have a heart conversation with your husband about it.

– Dear Abby is written by Abigail Van Buren, also known as Jeanne Phillips, founded by her mother Pauline Phillips. Please contact Dear Abby at Dearabby.com or CA 90069 Po Box 69440 in Los Angeles.

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